Mar 18, 2022
Don’t Underestimate yourself; Release Your Ideas.


Don't Underestimate Yourself

Don’t Underestimate Yourself; Release Your Ideas

You are bigger than you think you are

—Felix A. Duyilemi


I remember many years ago when I used to belittle myself. My thought lines were along:

“I am not good enough.”

” I am not smart enough. ”

“I am not tall enough!”

“Who will read my books if I write books.”


I have those silly thoughts for a long while until I fired them all!

I gained my freedom from this limiting mindset in the year 2007 when I wrote my first book. I eventually did what I thought I couldn’t do.

It was liberating for me.

What was more liberating was the discovery that people need what I have. The book sold out within the first two years!

I received calls from far and wide from readers who were eager to tell me how my book changed their lives!

I was flabbergasted!

From that time on, I decided I will never place a limit on my ability. I will honour my talent and refuse to be apologetic for my personal greatness.


Perhaps, you are where I was a few years ago, and you are feeling incompetent or unfit to express the yearning in your heart. You can receive your freedom today.


Let me tell you this; you have what the world needs. And you will never know how far you can go, and how great you can become until you start.

Stop telling yourself what you can’t do, start doing what you know you can do.

Do you love to write? Write!

Ignore the false idea that nobody wants what you want to say.

Let nobody tell you you came too late and the market is already saturated.


About 3 years ago a reader of my blog wrote to me and said, “Today, I was thinking of committing suicide, I stumbled on your blog, and you saved my life.” Can anything beat that! 

My blog saved a soul from early grave.


Never underestimate the impact of your ideas. Look at Facebook, Tittok, LinkedIn, Instagram, twitter, and other social media, they were mere ideas a few years ago.


Until 2004 nobody knew Facebook, today about 3 billion people are on Facebook! Talk of the power of an idea !

What would have happened if Mark Zuckerberg had allowed one silly thought to suffocate that powerful idea?


I don’t believe you are reading this by a coincidence, you are here at the right time. There is something in you. You have a message for this generation. Whatever it’s, bring it out.


Forget about perfection, produce now, perfect later.

Be comfortable with making mistakes.

Fail. Get up and keep going.

Your gifts get better with use.


Stop limiting yourself, let today be the first day you stop existing and start living!

PS: Let’s talk, what has been your major excuse for not doing what you know you should be doing? Leave your comment in the comment box

The Author

Felix DuyilemiFelix A. Duyilemi is a Pastor, Leadership, and Greatness Coach. He is the award-winning author of “How to Borrow God’s Brain To Succeed” and other international bestsellers. When he’s not learning, or writing, he’s out speaking and coaching or taking time out with his family. You can reach him through email at [email protected]

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Mar 4, 2021
The Positive Power of Believing In Yourself.

Felix Duyilemi

“If we did all the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.”

Thomas A. Edison.


What have they called you?


·Albert Einstein  was called a good for nothing boy.

·Les Brown was tagged mentally retarded.

·Walt Disney was judged to lack creativity

·Thomas Edison was called a dunce

·Winston Churchill was told he would never amount to anything.

·Billy Graham was told nobody would ever hear of his name.



However, these people succeeded against the predictions of the negative thinking experts. When nobody believed in them, they believed in themselves.


When Steve Harvey was in Junior School, his teacher asked them to write what they would like to become in the future, Steve wrote down that he would like to be on TV.


Instead of encouraging him, his teacher was furious and told him to write something “More realistic.”


Today, Steve Harvey is a premier Comedian, best-selling author and the host of the Steve Harvey Show. If that teacher is still alive today, he might as well bite his tongue each time he tunes his TV set and sees Steve Harvey Live!


He doesn’t matter what anybody have told you or written about you, the only person that can stop you is you. Don’t trade your future away based on the experiences of your past. The truth is nobody can really see your potential until you start using it.


I saw a friend recently – we both graduated from the same University- while talking, he mentioned that he has heard a lot about my books and that he’s been really inspired by my life. I thanked him.


“You see” he said, “While in School, I never really thought much about you- to me you are just like any other ordinary student- until I read one of your books and that changed my perception of you”


The truth is this guy had a wrong perception of me. He didn’t think much of me because he hasn’t seen all of me.


He has only interacted with the “ordinary” part of me so he thought I wasn’t beyond ordinary.


Maybe, your friends, family, or spouse haven’t thought much about you because they have only seen the ‘ordinary’ part of you, it’s time you showed them that there is more to you than what they have seen or known.



You have a great potential to achieve extra-ordinary things in life, if only you believe in yourself.


Take for instance your brain is made of billions and billions of intricate and complex network of neurons and synapses with unlimited capacity to accomplish amazing feat- if only you will put it to task.


Right now, you have an unlimited potential to become a best-selling Author, accomplished Musician, Consummate Entrepreneur, 6-figure public Speaker, Extra-ordinary clergyman, global scientist, international diplomat and so on.


You are simply un-limited. Believe it.

 When you start believing in yourself a whole new world will open to you.

You will draw on your innate potentials that have been buried in the grave of your low self-esteem, insecurity, and fear.


People, resources, and situations will rise up to welcome your new personality. You will welcome challenges like a champion and deal with them with confidence inspired by the awareness of your unlimited potential.


Only you can limit how far you go in life.


  Maybe it’s true you might have grown up with fragile or weak self-esteem based on your childhood experiences.


Maybe you have parents who talked you down or failed to nurture your self-esteem.


Your High School Teacher might have called you names because you failed a simple arithmetic. Or maybe you have certain disability that didn’t make you popular with girls or boys- all this could have negatively impacted your self-esteem.


However, as true as these facts may appear, nothing can damage you permanently if you don’t surrender to it.


There is this mistake many of us make and this is it: the belief that other people are better than us. We tend to have more confidence in others than we have in ourselves.


The truth is nobody is better than you. That doesn’t make you to become arrogant or cocky. You don’t need to be intimated by other people abilities. You have yours.


Maybe you can’t paint like Michelangelo, or write like Shakespeare but there is something that only you can do very well.


You are simply unique and original.


Nobody can do what you have been wired for better than you. That is why you need to have confidence in your own ability. You need to start believing in yourself.


I want you today to write boldly on a sheet of paper now: I BELIEVE IN MYSELF. I CAN DO IT. I HAVE ABILITY TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD! SUCCESS IS IN MY DNA!


Let’s talk: Why do you think many people don’t believe in themselves? Please, leave your thought. Thank you.




Duyilemi A. Felix loves learning, reading and writing. He focuses his energy on learning important life principles and he teaches what he learns through books, seminars, media, churches and in corporate organizations. Reach him via [email protected].

 Check below some of my life changing books



Just imagine it!


Imagine you have a complete access to God’s Brain to solve your most outstanding personal and professional challenges right now! Wouldn’t that be terrific!


That is exactly what you are about to learn in this book.


Get the digital copy here.


Thousands have been inspired and blessed by this book.


It teaches you how to discover, develop and display that which is in you!



Download the digital copy HERE


One of the greatest laws of success is the law of Positive Knowing or Law of Positive Conviction which the psychologists refer to as Success Efficacy.


This book will build “success conviction” in you that will make it impossible for you to fail in life.

Get the digital copy HERE



Many people have called this book a compelling DESTINY Textbook.


Everything you need to know about your destiny you will find it in this book.


The rest of your life can be full of positive excitement because you know what you are living for!



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