May 31, 2020
10 PRINCIPLES OF HIGH FLYING ACHIEVERS. IF YOU LEARN THEM, YOU CAN BE ONE!


Anyone wants to be an achiever. Desire to be great is inborn in all of us. If you are reading this now, my instinct tells me that you desire to live beyond ordinary. I am pleased to tell you that your desire is noble and honorable. But desire alone is not enough. A story is told about a young man with a tremendous passion to be an achiever in life. He wanted to make his mark. So he decided to visit a man who the whole community recognized as a genius-a man with a wealth of experiences.

“What brings you to me?” the elderly man asked

“I want to become successful; I desire to be an achiever” Replied the young man

The old man smile and said, “That is very simple, all you need to do is to find out what successful people do, and replicate in your own life”

My assignment in this article is to help you organize a set of principles of high flying achievers; your assignment is to replicate it in your life.  The principles are as follows:

1. Know what you want.

This is the simplest but most powerful of all principles of high flying achievers, knowing what you want in life. You can’t go south travelling through North. You must be able to specify what you really want to do, be and have in life. Your vision is your picture of your future. Remember if you don’t have dreams, there will be no dreams to fulfill. James Allen strongly advised:

“Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so shall you become. Your vision is the promise of what you shall one day be; your Ideal is the prophecy of what you shall at last unveil.”

2. Know what you don’t Want.

Just as important as stating what you want out of life, you must be able to also know what you don’t want in life. Why? Because, life has no predetermined value on you except the once you either consciously or unconsciously place on yourself. You should be able to state what YOU WILL NOT ACCEPT IN LIFE NO MATTER THE CONDITION.

Jessie B. Rittenhouse writes:

“I bargained with Life for a penny, And Life would pay no more, however I begged at evening when I counted my scanty store.

“For Life is a just employer; He gives you what you ask, but once you have set the wages, why, you must bear the task.

“I worked for a menial’s hire, only to learn, dismayed, that any wage I had asked of Life, Life would have paid.”

3. Make Your Passion Your Work.

Job becomes fun when you are working on what you have passion for. Look around you the people who are truly fulfilled in life are people who have made their passion their job. Zig Ziglar Coaches, John.C Maxwell trains, Anthony Robbins motivates, Shakespeare writes, Messi plays football, Tiger wood plays golf…Success becomes fun when passion romances with work. When you find your passion, you won’t look for job.

4. Set Goals with  Deadline.

Goals determine how far you go. Human beings are goal seeking organism. We are built to function at our best when we have goals we are pursuing.  It is not good enough to say I want to become successful. In what? Where? When? Goals are not goals without a deadline.  It’s been said that “success is goals, and all else is commentary.”

5. Think Big.

What a man can conceive, he can achieve. So don’t place a limit on whom or what you can be by your thoughts. The limit to what you can achieve in life is limitless. So don’t play it small. Let your imagination roam wild. Let your imagination take you around the world. “Remember that the only limit to your capabilities is the one you place upon them. There is no law of limitation” Said Robert Collier.

6. Talk Big.

Your mouth rules your world. Whatever that is not bigger than your mouth is not bigger than your life. Words are capital. Start talking big; talk your way to stardom. People will gauge you by the strength of your words. I am not saying you should be proud or arrogant, the point I am making is to make your words consistent with the future you desire. E. W Kenyon noted: Your life rises or falls to the level of your confession.

7. Act Big

It is not enough to think or talk big; you must also begin to act big. Let your action be consistent with the picture of the future you have seen about yourself. For instance if you intend to become the President of your Country, start talking and acting like a President. If you intend to become a billionaire, start acting like one. Remember one of the ancient principles of success is “be-ing should precedes do-ing’. From today, irrespective of what you are, how you look, where you are coming from, starting acting your future not your past.

8. Welcome Feedback.

Feedback is a response that put us on the line in our journey to greatness. High achievers solicit for feedback,  honour and respect it. Don’t fight feedback; be humble so you don’t stumble.

9. Respect Your Words.

That is another way of defining integrity. Honesty is still the best policy. Make your words your boundary. Honour agreements. Be known as a straight forward person. Respect commitment. Remember the words of Marcus Antonius, “ Truth is always strong, no matter how weak it looks and falsehood is always weak no matter how strong it looks.”

10. Build Your Life around God.

It’s only a fool who thinks he doesn’t need the assistance of God, don’t be one. Let God help you. There is a reference in the Bible that states “In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path” God is the highest achiever, it’s wisdom if you make Him your intimate friend!

I hope these principles help you become a high flying achiever in your generation.

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About The Author

Dr. Duyilemi Akindele Felix is a renowned  writer and International Inspirational Speaker. He is a popularly sought after Speaker in Corporate Organizations, Schools, Seminars and Churches. He has written a number of inspirational books including “It’s In You” “Pick Up Your Broken dreams” “Wake Up Your Destiny” and others.

 


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May 25, 2020
WHAT I "HATE" About Mount Zion Latest Movie, THE TRAIN





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When Mike Bamiloye’s son Damilola announced a few weeks back that the movie, “the Train”  that chronicled the life journey of Evangelist Mike Bamiloye, the Founder of Mount Zion Faith Ministries(who recently turned 60), I was on the lookout for it on YouTube.


And two weeks ago, I had the opportunity to watch the film.
Recommended book:

What is my opinion about this film? Read on…

First, the movie is about the history of one of the greatest Gospel generals the continent of Africa has ever produced.

From a very humble background, Mike Bamiloye has become an exciting voice around the globe today, and his ministry, the Mount Zion Faith Ministries, is the Father and Mother of many gospel drama ministries, in the continent of Africa today.



From the setting of the movie, the depiction of characters, the creative blending of songs and instrumentation, the theme, language, appearance, voice coordination, and background music, the entire movie in the words of Wa Njovu, one of the over 1 million viewers on YouTube, “The entire movie captures flashbacks that bring the theme to light”

The story depicts the power of faith, conviction, and courage to go after your God’s given vision regardless of external conditions.

Raised by several foster parents after the demise of his biological mother (by the way, what happened to the father of bro Mike?), Mike went through various life stages, he was very skillful at stealing meats from the Mama’s ‘pot,” had his own stint with adolescent delinquency; and ultimately, a life changing encounter with Jesus Christ. 

That marked a new beginning for brother Mike.

Was his destiny set at the begining? No, various experiences Bro Mike had didn’t in any way revealed what a mega-destiny waiting for him in the future.


 Sisters turned down his proposals and turned him to “gossip prayer points.” 
Bro Mike suffered. His suits suffered. And he suffered in the hands of “Elders” who were supposed to encourage his fledgling vision.

However, Mike Bamiloye with great doggedness, gusto, and what seemed like temporary madness, Bro Mike resigned his full-time job as a local primary school teacher, like Apostle Paul, to pursue his heavenly vision!
Who would believe in Bro Mike’s vision?

 Sister Gloria!

 I am still thinking about that woman till today! What a great woman!
What a woman of faith! What a depth of conviction to make you abandon a ready-made suitor coming from the overseas for a struggling Bro, whose only destiny was in the hands of the invisible God?

How about those Mount Zion faithful members who chose to follow a reckless brother Mike with a reckless faith in a reckless vision? Every one of those “brothers” and “Sisters” deserve a GOLD MEDAL. They are worthy of double honors.

So what Do I hate About this Movie?
No, I didn’t hate anything in this movie, but…

 I hate the fact that several great visions, like Bro Mike’s vision has been abandoned on the altar of comfort, “easism,” and lack of faith in the giver of such dreams.



 I hate the fact that so many people are running away from a great future because of “temporary” circumstances…

See the movie HERE and tell me what you “Hate” about it!

For me, “It’s Yes!”

PS: What do you think? Please leave your thoughts in the comment box before you leave. Thanks for reading!

The Author


Felix A. Duyilemi is the international best-selling author of “How To Borrow God’s Brain To Succeed”, “The MAGIC of Getting Rich,” and other best-selling books

He helps businesses and individuals craft compelling stories, expand their concepts of possibilities, and dream bigger dreams. His vision is to impact at least 3 billion people for time and eternity

When he’s not learning new concepts, he’s speaking or writing. Reach him at [email protected]

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May 21, 2020
Why Do Extra-ordinary People Live An Ordinary Life?

Why Do Extraordinary People Live Ordinary Life?

I woke up one day thinking about this, “why do extra-ordinary people live an ordinary live?” This question really bothered me. Why do we live below our true potentials? Why do we settle for good enough when we are capable of inspirational living? Why?

 

These questions descended through the recess of my mind like the Niagara fall. I wanted answer to this major issue. I want to help as many as I can. I believe we are all created by God to live life at its best. We are created to be extra-ordinary. I am convinced of this.

 

Nobody should live a colourless, purposeless and powerless life. If we know God’s original plans for our lives we will literarily astound ourselves.

 

I have been a student of personal greatness for more than 17years. I have studied and analyzed several lives. When I see people who have made great differences with their lives, I ask why? When I see people whom seem to be victim in life, I equally ask why? I believe that both success and failure leave clues.

 

Related : TEN PRINCIPLES OF HIGH FLYING ACHIEVERS

A story is told of a young man who dreamed of playing professional football. In high School he was a star player and won several awards. In his small town, all the children looked up to him, and wanted to be like him.

 

But most coaches thought he was too small to play in college. All the major Universities turned him down. He was discouraged. He quit playing football, and took a job at a Pizza restaurant.

 

One night he was delivering pizzas and a ten-year-old boy answered the door. The boy couldn’t believe what he saw. He was star struck. This was the man he was dreaming he would one day become. The boy’s father walked up and the young man gave the father the pizza. The little boy was confused. He looked up at his father and looked at the young man and said, “What are you doing delivering pizzas?”

 

Those words from the boy lit a fresh fire on the inside of this young man. ‘What am I doing delivering pizzas?’ He asked himself. That summer he trained harder and became bigger, stronger, quicker, and faster.

 

That fall, he tried another major University and was accepted. He made the team and worked hard until he became a star player. This young man eventually became a star in the NFL living out his dream.

 

But he said, “It would have never happened if the ten-year-old boy hadn’t asked me, ‘What are you doing selling pizzas?’

 

 

 

 

It’s my interest in this article to light the fire in you to go for extra-ordinary life you were born to live. Here are my few suggestions:

1.Find Your Purpose.

A fish is programmed to swim.

A bird is programmed to fly.

You are programmed for a purpose.

You may not be good at everything but you are good at something. God created you for something specific. You are customized and wired with peculiarity to solve a particular problem in life. You are SPECIAL. You are UNIQUE. You are DIFFERENT. You are not supposed to go everywhere, you are not supposed to do everything, you are supposed to do SOMETHING you are really really, really designed for.

Find out your calling. Locate your assignment in life and give the world a piece of your good news (to learn more about this, please  order for my great book titled “Wake Up Your Destiny: embracing your personal greatness”)

2.Don’t Allow Fear To Rule your life.

This man laments at the end of his life. This is how he summed up the journey of his life.

Hear him:

“I could have won, if not that I was afraid to try” is a common story.

 

God knows fear does no good, and in 365 places for 365 days He tells you, “fear not”

 

“I could have done it at 20, fear told me I was too young, and people wouldn’t take me serious because of my age”

 

“I waited till I was 30, fear told me I didn’t have enough experience to start”

So I waited.

 

” At 40 I thought I have had enough experience, fear told me, I shouldn’t try it because I might fail and showed me a lot of people who have tried it and “It didn’t work”

 

” I brace up at 60, fear told me I am nearing the retirement age, I should wait” So I waited.

 

“I became determined at 70, fear told me now you are too old, the work is meant for younger people”

 

“Now at 90, I realize I could DO IT, but the doctor had warned me not to go out”

 

“How silly I was to listen to fear all along.”

Fear magnifies problem.

It overestimates cost.

 It predicts failures.

 It visualizes troubles.

It envisions obstacles.

Never allow it to rule your life!

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3.Get Rid of Excuses.

Are you familiar with the following?

·It will never work in your country.

·You are too young.

·You are too old.

·You are too tall.

·You are too short.

·You are not educated enough.

·You are too educated.

·The time is not right.

·It’s too early.

·It’s too late.

·You don’t have the skills.

·It might fail.

Leave these excuses follow your dreams.

Look around you, how many roads, how many houses have excuses built?

How many awards have excuses won?

How many lives have excuses touched?

How many books have excuses written?

How many songs have excuses sung?

How many jobs have excuses created?

No monuments have been erected for excuses.

Excuses only have the reputation of being the maintenance of paralysis.

People who fail find excuses; people who succeed find reason to.

There are always thousands of excuses not to do what you need to do, none of them is good.

Good excuses are bad habits. Quit them.

Take charge of your future, get rid of excuses.

 

4.Stand Up And Show Up!

You have amazing potential in you. Stop observing life, start impacting lives. There is something you can do. Do it. Stop analyzing your dream, start actualizing it. Simply believe it. Tell the world, I have something to offer! Stop being a consumer, start being a producer. Today, I have written and published five great books. When people asked me “How did you become a published author” I simply responded “I just stood up and showed up!” I knew I wasn’t meant to read books by other authors all my life. I knew I too have something that is worth reading. I have a message to pass across to my world. So in 2007, without much knowledge about publishing, I published my first book “Your Importance to Your Generation” Today, many lives around the world have been tremendously blessed by my books. You too have got something in you, just wake up, the world is waiting!

 

Years ago Appleton penned this immortal statement:

“I knew his face the moment that he passed

Triumphant in the thoughtless, cruel throng—

I gently touched his arm—he smiled at me—

He was the Man that Once I Meant to Be!

“Where I had failed, he’d won from life, Success;

Where I had stumbled, with sure feet he stood;

Alike—yet unalike—we faced the world,

And through the stress he found that life was good.

And I? The bitter wormwood in the glass,

The shadowed way along which failures pass!

Yet as I saw him thus, joy came to me—

He was the Man that Once I Meant to Be!

“We did not speak. But in his sapient eyes

I saw the spirit that had urged him on,

The courage that had held him through the fight

Had once been mine. I thought, ‘Can it be gone?’

He felt that unasked question—felt it so

His pale lips formed the one-word answer, ‘No!’

“Too late to win? No! Not too late for me—

YOU WERE CREATED FOR AN EXTRA-ORDINARY LIFE NEVER SETTLES FOR A SUBSTITUTE!

 

Related : You can GET ANYTHING IN LIFE JUST THE WAY YOU WANT IT

 

About the Author

Dr. Duyilemi Akindele Felix is a renowned  writer and International Inspirational Speaker. He is a popularly sought after Speaker in Corporate Organizations, Schools, Seminars and Churches. He has written a number of inspirational books including “It’s In You” “Pick Up Your Broken dreams” “Wake Up Your Destiny” and others. He spends his time reading, writing and speaking. Reach him on [email protected]

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May 20, 2020
Inspiration to Live For Today: Mistakes

“A person who never makes mistakes never makes anything”

 

    -Albert Einstein 

 

Mistakes is the pathway to mastery. 

 

Whether you are learning to drive a car, mathematics or play golf, you will make mistakes. 

 

You will forget instructions. You will miss a few steps. You may get your fingers burnt a few times. 

 

You are not alone. Ask Abraham Lincoln, or Henry Ford or Thomas Edison, they would tell you that mistakes were their tutor.

 

 If you are afraid of making mistakes, you will never make anything.

 

 Makes mistakes, people may laugh at you or ridicule you…but you will grow! You will learn. You will become better.

 

Make mistakes your friends, not your enemy.

 

 Be not hard with yourself when you fail. Pick yourself up and repeat the process. 

 

Every person doing it well today, once do it badly.

 

 Even Albert Einstein once failed in Mathematics. 

 

Henry Ford forgot to put reverse gear in his first car.


 Thomas Edison conducted 9,999 failed experiments. 


Great men make mistakes, only that they don’t allow mistakes to make them. 

 

Don’t turn one bad experience into a lifetime of regrets.


If you missed it one or two times, learn the lesson, and try again. 


Let mistakes fuel your motivation to master your art.


And when people; your co-workers, friends, children, wife/husband make mistakes, give them a second chance. 


Like Mo’ne Davis said, ” Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone deserves a second chance. ” 


Give yourself permission to be human, laugh at your mistakes!


 

PS: Let’s keep the conversation going…What is your most embarrassing mistakes, and what lessons do you learn from it? Drop it in the comment box!


 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

About the Author
Duyilemi A. Felix  is a Nigeria based Life  and Business  mentor specialized in helping people grow their business by thinking differently, expand  their concept of possibilities and create new realities.

When he’s not learning new concepts, he’s writing or speaking.


 He’s also the lead pastor of Christ Classic International Ministries. Reach him at [email protected]

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